My wife and I enjoy getting away for a Holiday weekend, and naturally, we like to play... (none of the motels have thrown us out yet for making such racket; which is why we give them a good review, and a "BDSM-friendly" rating). When we got back together I said to her "you're the boss, and only YOU know how to discipline me!" After almost forty years there (still) isn't a doubt in my mind that she is the only woman in my life, and the only one who can truly understand me -- and paddle my bare-ass!